Hola Munchkins! Why was I the only person on a full schedule at my office???
No Matter Boss pays extra, buys lunch, puts up with my sassytude AND why did I find a CHECK from Dec 24th Undeposited in my car?? I've cleaned that bitch like 3 times and I never saw that!!!
Is a blessing considering that, as always my weekends manage to impress even me!
After that Garage sale at Tia Lusy's I came home dealt with the toilet and my CLOSET overflowing with water as by-product of this! (guess who is happy she bought a shoe rack now??) and handled that situation with stupid ass G. I Joe, I told him his shit was unacceptable and that he is NOT to call me at work he stayed kissing ass the rest of the day and I was amused I kept clowning on the extra calling so it was good for me: there he is texting right now about doing dinner: I reply he has to behave for all of that
BUUURRRNNN!
************************* (mind you I started writing this like sometime Saturday Night... we had that dinner tonight/Monday night, yeah like until 3:00am actually just shit talking and him apologizing for the overbearingness and talking sex drives, sex partners, and telling me he'd pay for my massages in food/sexual favors/or money... I lean over the first two!, so he is tenuously back in play, why... I need orgasms and I lost count of tonight, and he didn't give me attitude about being MIA in fact he was quite pleasant talking about missing me and the such)*************************************************************************
Anywhoo
Ok so you KNOW I've been complaining about my knees the whole cold season more or less, Mami finally deigned herself to look at it yesterday and made me pull down my pants; Well apparently I'm not doing good, and she was shocked... shocked enough to split her Celebrex with me, I would have refused except she tried to massage my knees and THAT did not go over well... I howled like a dog
So I'm on chondroitin and gluosamine supplements, her celebrex for extremes like NOW, no night runs for now, no heavy on the knee exercise, no heels (BOOOOOOOOOO!)
But already a weekend of actually resting it and taking care feels better: My options are warm compresses, massage, moderation, pills, steroid shot to the site and Ultimately THE NEEDLE as in HUGE needle to get the fluid out.... FUNNEMENT!
and Oh THANKS boss For telling me TODAY I need to take that shit with food not empty tummy... no wonder I been feeling so sexy! Ugh!
So that was uncomfortable and quite the bummy shit considering I was set to start My Workout sexified Coven with the ladies (SUCH a great Vibe thus far !!! Loves it) but still I worked out tonight, I kind of went easy on the knee but managed to break a sweat too!
YAY!!!
Also another SUPER REMARKABLE thing is: Mami was soooo ... I don't know I' not used to her fussing over me nor being nice about it, say, the doctor in her took over... but Saturday was that kiss, right? the Sunday she cooked for me and let me quietly nap for a few hours, she cut me up some pineapple, then split her meds with me when she needs them so much more... then she walked me to the car and told me she prays for us kids, that she prays for Binks to always have food and be alive for them babies, for Pabul to find a spouse ... and for me to stay happy, she said AND I QUOTE!:
"Mija I see you, you look pretty , you are a good woman, prepared for life and one of the smartest people I've ever known, I want a partner for you that can match wits with you instead of you running a circle, that you can travel with and relax and let go"
UHHHH????
You Gotta understand: This is not the parent I grew up with nor is it comfortable when the dynamics are fucked with so radically, so we NEVER know how to act when she gets ... motherly like this without pushing or conniving or harping or back-hand-complimenting
Q: " uh mom I'm happy i feel almost at a perfect place (if I had money an no house issues) My family/friends love me and I feel so much of it that I'm good, really"
Mami: "Yeah that's why I pray for you last, cause I know everyone loves you, but still, I'd like you less alone, maybe later you can rent that place out and just move close to the beach, you like the beach so much... something"
WOW
Q:Mami don't worry I'm good I really really am!, don't worry at all
And that!, I swear is the absolute truth... I feel very happy, positive and pleased with how things are moving along, could I have more of everything I like? YES, could I stay as I am?... Every Damned DAY so long as I'm healthy! The Little things are just Baby Bullshit!
....Oh Then she call me today at work to check up on me and Make me swear to go easy on the heels or any sort of intense activity
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KEITH TAGGED ME (Isn't just he the nicest!!!, seriously!)
The Emblem Of The Helping Hand
I need to name five bloggers (blogs) who are my "Helping Hand" and they are:
1. Karrie.B
2. The OHNers
3.Monie
4. Mia
5. The Bully
Next, I need to extend a "Helping Hand" in support and encouragement to five more bloggers (blogs) and they are:
6. Bloggal
7. YoungBlackBeauty
8. Camilita
9. Z'Maji
10. Jada
Great blogs By absolutely awesome People
Rules for The Emblem of the Helping Hand:
1. Select 10 bloggers: First, pick 5 bloggers that you consider your blogging "Helping Hand". Second, pay it forward by extending your "Helping Hand" to 5 additional bloggers in support and encouragement for their efforts.
2. In passing on the emblem, each recipient must provide the name of the blog and/or blog author with a link for others to visit. Each recipient must show the emblem and put the name and link to the blog that has given it to her/him.
3. Link the emblem to this post, "Helping Hand: Much Obliged and Paying it Forward", so that others will know its origin and impetus.
4. If you have not already done so, show your recipients some love by adding them to your blogroll, Technorati Favorites list, or in some other way to further let them know that their blog voice is important to you and being heard.
5. Add your name to "The Helping Hand Meme" and don't forget to leave a comment as a permanent record of all "Helping Hand" recipients.
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16 comments:
Aww, that was very nice of your mom. Maybe she's starting to turnover a new leaf in life and finally accept you for who you are.
Monique: WHo Knows? you might be right but I wouldn't just sit back and relax just yet, This is my mom we're tombout her... Oh Yeah she asked me again about Surgery!, this time she put it out there like "a Girls" thing, like, We should go together whaddaya say? ah? ah?
Have you REALLY questioned why your mom's being nice, or do you not want to rock that boat?
Some possibilities come to mind why she's being so nice to you. Not saying you should question her out and out, but maybe you should ask around. Perhaps something happened on her last trip --some kind of discovery, maybe.
Just putting that out there.
Wilfredo
I don't know your mom but maybe she's just hard on you in a twisted attempt to thicken your skin. Granted, there are much better ways to accomplish this but as a mom it's hard for me to accept that another mother would NOT love their kid and think they are the absolute ish
HGE
Wilfredo: I NEVER NOT QUESTION my mom's motives, In fact, THAT is the novelty for me to let anything she does roll off my back, but basically When she doesn't call me by my full name or with the rough tinge on it I pretty much ask: What do you want or what did I do??
Hot Girl Extraordinaire: Oh Hon My Mom? I mean read through archives my mom is THE MASTER at saying some Mean ass fucked up shit real cavalier-like and shit, since we were little (like you kids are not the best looking, maybe you can aspire to marry someone, I couldn't be the specialty I wanted out of med school cause I got preggo with you, as a black woman you gotta try harder cause no one would find you want-able blah blah blah blah).... since 198whenever!
That's why I'm like uh? WTF? you? Really? Word? Like uncomfortable Alert Much!
Where My Five dollars at?
Bytch, you said FUNNEMENT!
I hate you. That is all.
Mami is really on a roll, isn't she? It's wonderful to see, but whew! Don't look a gift horse in the mouth, just enjoy it for as long as she feels that way(this is MAMI, so it may not last long, you know?).
Shyt, but she was about to have me in tears over here!
Take it easy on those knees, triplet. I know you love your heels, but keep it comfy for a while!
Awww Thanks "Q.Q. Bonita"(lol) for the love.(Cyber Hug 2 U..)
Now you know I love your pretty feet, but do go easy on the heels..
You need your knees too.(lololol)
Your feet are just as pretty in some comfortable flat sandals.
(Just for awhile..lol)
I'm so jealous of that warm weather down there...It was so cold this morning, my car doors were frozen shut...
Sherri: yes, yes I did!
*sigh* I suppose you be very very right!
I know i Know i Will sincerely try to be good!
Keith: They are pretty! all lime green and shit... I'm giving it a few days of peace and quiet
That sounds HORRIBLE friend, but trust, it will be in the 40s or so tonight and 50 tomorrow and the rest of the week :(
That means I'll be not so happy... no bueno
Well damn Mami. LOL
Awwww, lovey! How nice to see that I'm a helping hand. I love you lots!!!!!
This whole mami situation is very interesting. I can see how you'd be very confused about it LOL but I'm happy she's being nice! Maybe it was her NY resolution...? LOL!
knees sound painful... uugh your mom sounds like mine
I'm so damn effin' late with my reply, but I just had to hit my girl up with a comment...
...I wish I found an undeposited check because I would cash it ASAP and get a much needed waxing, lol!
Am I reading this right...did you give G.I. some?!
See, your mother is cool and she loves you...I know at times she could be a pain to you, but aren't all mothers? I still would love to meet her.
Monique: yeah , I know!
Monie: You sooo are all sorts of helpy!!... you know the story so yeah is almost like a wait and see approach... LOL It could be her resolution too LOL
Bow Chica Wah Wah: Like, you have NO idea how much, and now that it got cold again... uh... yeah no fun!
Beautifully.Conjured.Up: Bwahahah not even I was sincerely Bill fretting and then BOOM! check, is uncanny how I stay having a little bit show up here and there!
Oh I Told you Girlfriend Weak flesh... plus I've clowned him ENOUGH that I felt ok with it ANNNDDD well he started with them nude shots... and the abs that won't quit and he was kinda shinny fresh out the shower... DAMN! him, besides between him and Weezy... no contest he lives closer, has the bigger dong and is a cuddler
Oh mami loves all my friends you'd do fine with her, she is just a handful to me but not to anyone else!
I hope you feel better about your knee. Your mom sounds very caring, but reading through these responses, I have a feeling I have missed a lot. I have a lot of reading to do!
Feel better hon!
seems like all my joints freeze up when its coold - hop it a RA
awww, that was really sweet of your mother. it just shows that, even when our parents annoy the hell out of us, they usually mean well.
aww and thanks for the tag! i've been so busy this week that i hadn't even had a chance to stop by and i'm just now seeing it. thanks again Q-Bear=)
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